people act like it’s some kind of revolutionary subversion of gender roles when men do things like bake or paint, as if those things as crafts and trades have not historically been and are not still dominated by men, as if women pursuing them are not…
"REAL MEN DON’T RAPE!!!!!!!!11111!!111111!"
props my chin on my hands. stares u down. except they DO and that’s the fucking PROBLEM and trying to attack rape culture by using macho heteronormativity to shame dudes into not raping for fear of damaging their man cred (??????) rather than like, destroying attitudes that present women as sexual objects is like
not …. a solid strategy
i listen to exclusively the space jam soundtrack and nothing else
White privilege is going to the doctor for blood sugar issues and getting it checked out instead of being told to “stop eating so much rice”. It’s not having to wait until you total your car because you pass out from low blood sugar to find out the issue is a tumor on your pancreas.
“TWO WRONGS DON’T MAKE A RIGHT”
translation: I’m being shitty to you, but you’re not allowed to be anything less than nice to me, or I won’t stop being shitty to you!
wet dream: being financially secure with a career i enjoy
So Jealous —Tegan and Sara
if you misgender someone and they become angry with you do not make it about you
stop and realize that they are most likely less frustrated with YOU misgendering them and more frustrated that is KEEP HAPPENING
do not try and justify that you misgendered them
apologize (not profusely) and promise that you will try harder to not misgender them