what you said was: "i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"
what you meant was: "i and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity"
what i heard was: "hi i'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face"
crybabe: wow you have the best taste in music unzip ur pants
me: this is a bad idea and will only make me sad
me: okay let's do it
Me: *sits in towel for 6 months after showering*